Saturday, July 30, 2016

Steps ... A Lot of Steps

The quote is attributed to Lao Tzu. I can’t swear that he said it. Whether he did or not really isn’t the issue. The content of the quote is what’s important.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.”

It was back in 2006 … not long after we indentured ourselves for 30 years to a mortgage company where this house is concerned … that we got in the car, armed with a folder full of real estate listings that we’d garnered from the internet, and took off on a week-long trip to Arkansas in search for a piece of property that satisfied our interests.

One of the things we learned about listings on the internet … there is often little truth involved where property listings are concerned. Especially when they say … level building site ready for building your dream! We walked on property that you would fall off of if you didn’t carefully watch your step. We drove good roads that forded creeks. One good road took us across a spillway with several inches of water flowing on a “normal” dry weather day.  We looked at a few ideal get away locations in out of the way backwoods areas with neighbors that scared even this Alabama boy.

We really liked North-Central Arkansas and South-Central Missouri. It’s a beautiful area with a lot of really nice people.

It was more to the Northeast though that we found what we were looking for. We made the deal on 5 acres of Arkansas property and smiled all the way back to the Alabama Gulf-Coast.

We hadn’t been back long when a massive tornado ripped through the area where we had bought property. That was a really bad year for tornadoes and we decided that we’d rather not have to deal with the frequency of tornadoes that the area gets hit with. We called the realtor, listed the property, got our money back out of it after a few months, and resumed our search.

It was around 2010 that we drove to North Alabama to meet with a realtor to look at a piece of property that we liked … a nice acreage on Bear Creek. The price was right. Of course, being a realtor, he had to show us a few other properties that we might like. They were not to our liking.

The one that interested us really interested us. It interested us enough that we used the hood of the realtor’s truck to fill out some paperwork and write a check as a deposit on the property.

The realtor called before we got home and told us the seller had accepted our offer. A few days later the official paperwork arrived in the mail. We signed it and returned it to the realtor for the seller’s signature.

Somewhere along the way the seller recanted his verbal agreement and refused to sell the property.

Off we go in 2012 on a trip to the Volunteer State with another folder of listings that we’d looked at on the internet with an appointment to meet with a realtor in one area and another realtor in another area.

The first realtor was a sad disappointment. Typical salesperson. We looked at quite a few properties that day. We did get to look at a nice parcel of land on Wilder Mountain … in the rain. Beautiful place. The biggest problem with it was getting there. Honestly. It was a take your chances on a skinny switchback road with no guardrails kind of place. Beautiful views though. Unless you were going over the side of the mountain in an ice storm.

We drove to Pikeville, TN the next day and met a realtor in the parking lot of McDonalds. A really good guy. More of a I’ll show you around kind of guy than a let me try to sell you something salesperson.

The realtor showed us a couple properties close to town that would have been nice building sites for someone wanting to be close to town. Then he took us for a trip up on the Cumberland Plateau. Another couple of properties along the way that didn’t spark any interest in us. Then one last one.

We didn’t try to dicker even one nickel on the asking price of this hardwood treed, never been lived on, 3 acres on a county maintained gravel road.

Nine miles North of town.

Left on the paved road.

Right where Valley View veers off.

Follow it on up to the top of the plateau and go several miles.

Property on the left.

That is exactly where we would be headed at this point in the adventure had it not been for a conversation that my daughter brought to our house a couple years ago.

It was really more of a one-sided conversation. 

Daughter talking. Us listening.

“Dad, I need to talk to you. Now, I don’t want to hurt your feelings. And I know you and Shirli have your hearts set on moving up there and retiring on your property in Tennessee. But me and Danny have been talking. One day y’all are going to get old and we’re going to have to come up there and haul your butts back down here. So, whatever it is you are planning to do up there in Tennessee, why don’t you just do it on our property down here.”

That’s exactly what we are doing down here at The Cabin On Huckleberry Hill.

A thousand miles?

More like a few thousand.




Wednesday, July 27, 2016

Perspective and Choice

Life boils down to two things.

Perspective … and … the choices we make.

Perspective is that thing that we are all conditioned to have. There are a lot of high-dollar coaches employed to make sure our conditioning is successful and that we hit the field playing the game that we are trained to play.

We choose … knowingly or unknowingly … to play the game.

Us?

We are simply tired of the game. We grew weary of it a long time ago … years ago! We hung in there as long as we could. We gave it our best shot for as long as we could. We could, if we chose, keep hanging in there. We could, if we chose, keep spending ourselves.

But for what?

As I heard one old man say on a job years ago … My babies is raised. I ain’t got to do this!

We ain’t got to do this!

It’s not been easy getting to this point where we are finishing up the final steps in putting the humdrum of the hamster wheel behind us. Something that started as a dream … one born in a life-mix of heart felt desire and the circumstances of these modern times … meant making some hard decisions. It meant walking barefoot through some briar patches. It meant evaluating and weighing a lot of cultivated notions and perceptions. It became much more than a matter of stuff.

It became … and remains … a deeply intimate personal matter of reckoning with our own selves.

Stuff?

It’s just stuff.

Self?

Now that’s another booger altogether.

It’s kind of funny looking back and remembering the expressions on the faces of some of the what we thought were good friends when we initially talked about doing what we are doing … those looks of deep concern and the verbal questioning of our reasoning.

Just how do two people go from living in a 3 bedroom 2 bath house on ¾ of an acre to living comfortably in a 288 square foot cabin in the woods?

The honest truth of the matter is that most people will never be able to wrap their minds around what we are doing.

Another honest truth of the matter is that there comes a point that dictates taking everything you believe is right for your own self and (1) putting it into action or (2) forever living with the felt consequences of yielding to the chains and whips of social pressures.

We chose number 1.


Simplicity and Self-Reliance are achievable through careful deliberate steps. The initial steps are a strange mixture of pain and pleasure. The accumulated steps, for those daring enough to take them, emanate an aroma of freedom that defies description.

Freedom has a beautiful aroma.

Catch a whiff.